“More commonly in urban neighborhoods, large numbers of low-income children are denied these opportunities and come into kindergarten year without the minimal social skill that children need in order to participate in class activities and without even such very modest early-learning skills as knowing how to hold a crayon or a pencil, identify perhaps a couple of shapes and colors, or recognize that printed pages go from the left to right” (2). Before this statement Kozol discusses that there are many exceptions to this pattern but this statement rings true for far too many kids. Who is to blame or what is to blame for this? It is very easy for us to blame the “privileged culture” but as a parent I have to say that I did not wait for my sons to go to preschool before they were introduced to a book, or a pencil, or the ABC’s. There is a place for parent al involvement in a child’s life. I think that many parents need to take more of a responsibility to raise their kids academically, socially, and emotionally. Kozol doesn’t address parental responsibility in his text. It is a fact that the more parental and family support a child has, the better they will do in school. Where are the parents? As a country we need to address the teenage pregnancy rate or the rate of unwanted pregnancies more valiantly. It seems to be a vicious circle for many. As Cleaver said “Your’re either part of the solution of you’re part o f the problem.” We all become part of the problem if we do not address these concerns.
““It was seen, “ according to the New York Times, “as a promising effort to integrate white, black and Hispanic students in a thriving neighborhood that held on e of the city’s cultural gems,” Even from the start, however, parents in the neighborhood showed great reluctance to permit their children to enroll at Marin Luther King, and despite “its prime location and its name, which itself creates the highest of expectations,” notes the Times, the school before long came to be a destination for black and Hispanic students who could not obtain admission into more successful schools” (3).
All of the statistics that Kozol cites in his text is astounding. Although most of these schools are in predominately black and Hispanic neighborhoods, why are there still predominately black neighborhoods and white neighborhoods? This really opened my eyes to a world I thought was gone a long time ago. “I Have a Dream” ended it all, right? We have a black president and famous black people and everything is good, right? Langston Hughes said it best, “Nobody’ll dare say to me, eat in the kitchen then, besides they’ll see how beautiful I am and be ashamed. I,too, am America.
Is America ashamed? Have we really changed that much. Unless one has power, fame, and/or money, have things really changed that much. I wonder how it can be fair that the “privileged” kids of Barrington get a better education then the black kids in Providence. Why do their schools get more money! (I know why but..) Are we still living in a “separate but equal “society?
The Martin Luther King School in Manhattan closed its doors in 2005. “http://insideschools.org/high/browse/school/1418 According to Inside Schools, “Violence was also a consistent problem at King, despite the metal detectors and police presence added there after a shooting and a sexual assault in the 1990s. In 2002, shortly before the DOE announced that it would phase out Martin Luther King, a student shot two other students inside the building after sneaking through a side door.” What a shame because the irony in the situation is unbelievable. Although the intentions for the school were good, the reality of it was not. We live in a world where realty doesn’t seem to be at the forefront of our minds and our hearts. I thought that we lived in a world of equality but after I read this text this text, and when I read about the segregation that still goes on openly without hesitation I am worried as a mother, and a teacher and an American. I recently read an article to my students called “A Prom Divided.” After the reading we were all shocked to find out that there are still some schools in the south that have segregated proms. I have imbedded two of the videos, both true stories. The white kids seem rather indifferent to the idea; they think it is just a tradition. One young lady’s says that her best friend is black but the separate proms have been going on forever so they just go along with it. The black kids seem more upset. This is happening today, in 2011! I didn’t realize there were so many ignorant people still in this world (sorry for my harsh tone but it infuriates me).
"A Prom Divided"
